Okay so I said that I was going to do a monthly post about my terrible habit of procrastinating and how I plan to beat it so here ya go!
January is the month where everyone makes goals, resolutions, and promises, but it’s also the month we soon realize that it’s going to be a lot harder than we thought. Nothing worth accomplishing comes easy, or at least that’s what they tell me.
Last month I completely sucked at not procrastinating. Honestly I started off good with my time managing skills but then things just took a turn for the worst and if I knew when or how, I could probably tell you but I don’t. Unfortunately the sayin is true, old habits do die hard. But does that mean we give up??? NO. We keep trying our best to be responsible adults and kill this habit of procrastinating.
This month I’m just going to start with the little things. Like preparing for the next day before I go to bed instead of doing everything in the morning. Or hanging my clothes up right when I take them off instead of waiting until my couch is overflowing with clothes that need to be hung up. I figure if I take baby steps in breaking the habit then other things will fall into place….hopefully. Let’s try to get things done this month! No Later’s!
Have any suggestions, comments, or experiences? Feel free to share them. I know I’m not the only college student who struggles with procrastination so let’s help each other.
Had to take this Mcm way back to the first crush I ever had and that was Michael Jackson. Was in love with him at age 3. Everything he did was just spectacular to me. His smile, his style, the way he danced the way he sang, and the way he owned every stage he ever step foot on. No one is like him. He came, he saw and he conquered. No matter how fragile he seemed, he always was a BOSS when it came to music, performing and dancing. He’s been named THE KING OF POP and if thats not hot I dont know what is. What girl doesn’t want a King???
My woman crush this Wednesday goes to the stunning Kerry Washington. She’s just so beautiful and talented.
Lately I’ve been accused of being an overly critical, argumentative, know it all, with no patience. Ha! And they say I’m heartless?! No, accusing me of being such things is heartless. I mean that’s just down right wrong! But I will admit lately I have been a bit of a female dog (for the lack of a better word). I’m just fed up of grown adults having no sense what so ever, screaming for attention, living in La La Land, asking me for my opinion and or advice when they don’t listen anyway and then arguing with me on things I know for a FACT, I’m right about. So if that makes me a jerk, well then sue me!
Maybe I’m being a little too harsh and I need to jump off of my high elephant (I know the expression is “jump off your high horse” but in this case im riding around on an elephant) and realize everyone has their flaws, everyone makes mistakes and most importantly everyone can be an idiot at times, including myself. I’m in no spot to judge anyone. They’re adults and they have to live their life, after all they do have a right to. It’s none of my business what they do, when they do it and how they do it.
And I don’t need to argue points to prove that I’m right all the time, because the truth is I’m not always right, and I don’t always have the answers. There’s times when I’m unsure or even when I’m wrong. But when im right, dangit I’m right! Like, I hate when people try to prove that I’m wrong….about anything. However, I’ve learned that fools only argue with fools. In the end it makes me look just as immature and senseless when I’m trying to prove a point. If we’re outside, and I say the sky is blue, and then you say it’s purple, it’s really not going to make any sense for me to stand outside with you and argue for hours about it. We’d both look like idiots especially when the proof is right there. So, I recognize that sometimes I just have to let it go.
There! I said it (wrote it)! I’ve been acting like a total jerk. I’m not the queen. I don’t know everything. I’m just barely getting things figured out in my life. The thing is, I want to be someone who is respected. Someone who people look up to, who they can talk to, who people enjoy being around….someone who’s really a good person. I don’t want to be stuck up, arrogant, snotty, or someone who has a bad attitude just because they can. That’s not me. So I guess instead of focusing on everyone else, I need to focuse on myself, on who I am, who I’m becoming and who I want to be. Because in the end that’s all that really matters. Be the person you want to meet!
Mcm goes to Hayden Christensen, because he’s so hot and also because he’s Darth Vader.
So while talking about our summer trip to San Diego a good friend (she’s more like a lil sis) of mine and I came up with a theme for our summer, but I decided to make it a theme for my year since summer is so far away. The theme is “Ima have fun, now whether you decide to have fun or not, that’s your choice.” It’s a long one and it was totally a joke when we first came up with it. But I then realized that it was relevant to my life and my goals and what I want to accomplish.
Getting anything done is all about the attitude behind it. You have to be motivated and optimistic if you want to succeed. If you want to create fun memorable moments you have to leave negativity behind and embrace the positive. Ultimately if you want to have fun, in any situation, that’s your choice and not the choice of anybody else. This year, I’ve made it my choice to have fun regardless of what happens, to be in control of my feelings and to make the best out of my year. So what started out as a joke quickly became a life choice, but hey it totally works. So go have fun this year guys!
I really feel like some females can and will make drama out of anything. Then they’ll turn around and scream “I hate drama!” Well if I’m not mistaken, hating something means you abstain from it at all costs, not create it out of nothing every chance you get. I think the problem is sometimes we’re too much into our feelings instead of looking at things from a logical and non-emotional standpoint.
Not everyone is out to start drama with you, so why don’t you have seat and take a chill pill? If I happen to agree with someone who says that you think you’re the hottest thing on the planet, and that’s exactly what you think or what you post on instagram, then why is there a problem? I’m not understanding. I’m not saying you’re ugly, in fact, nobody is saying anything like that. It’s just a little comment. And if thats true, than seriously where is the issue? How is that drama?! Guess what? For people who have graduated highschool, that is not considered drama. That’s just a little comment about what we perceive from your instagram videos and or posts. If that’s not true than address it. It only turns into drama when you take it a certain way and decide to totally go over the top with it.
Look why can’t we all just act our age? I’m not saying we have to get along cause lets face it, not everyone will, but can we at least be mature about it? Not everything is all about drama. Most of it is misinformation. If you feel in some way that you’ve been talked about, or wronged, then address it at that instant. I’m not talking about posting on Facebook, twitter, or instagram vague posts that can be hinted towards the other person, I’m talking about actually talking it out with that person and getting the facts. Then after all is said and done move on. I mean if you really want to be drama free you’ll drop it and it won’t come up in any other conversation. If not, you’ll keep adding to the fire. It’s all up to you whether or not you want to be THAT female who’s always in drama. But don’t bring it this way cause I don’t have the time for it. You will get dismissed and be ignored with a quickness. I’m not going to help you get your kick out of complicating things, I just won’t. Drama is not what I’m about and I refuse to go there with you. I’m just sayin.